Relationships

My husband found out that I cheated on him and now people are telling him to leave me. I know I made a mistake but I’m scared he’ll will leave me because of the pressure.
– Sorry I Cheated

My husband found out that I cheated on him and now people are telling him to leave me. I know I made a mistake but I’m scared he’ll will leave me because of the pressure. <br>– Sorry I Cheated

Dear Dr. Faizal, Last year, I cheated on my husband and he found out. He took the kids to his parents and told them about it but we’ve worked it out. A month ago, someone learned about the affair and told everyone. My husband and I are reliving it again…

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Family

I think I’m attracted to women but haven’t had any romantic experiences to back this up. I feel pressured to get married to a man yet I know I won’t be happy.
– Maybe I’m Straight

Dear Dr. Faizal, I’m a Malaysian-Canadian female in my early 20s. Now that I’m completing my last year at UBC, my parents are considering the marriage proposals that have been coming in. I have not dated any man and do not wish to marry one. I think I am more…

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Workplace

My boss makes sexual remarks in the office. But I’m pretty sure if I say something, he’ll fire me and I can’t afford to lose my job right now.
– Hate My Boss

My boss makes sexual remarks in the office. But I’m pretty sure if I say something, he’ll fire me and I can’t afford to lose my job right now. <br>– Hate My Boss

Dear Dr. Faizal, My boss makes sexual remarks in the office. They are not directed at me or any employee but he objectifies female bodies. Yesterday, he was talking about how hot one of our client’s is and it made me uncomfortable. I don’t know how to convey my feelings…

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Relationships

Though it’s been several months since my husband lost his battle with cancer, I still feel that he’s living with me. I don’t know how to move forward without him.
– Forever His

Dear Dr. Faizal, My husband lost his battle with cancer last year. He meant everything to me: partner, lover, teacher, and friend. Though it’s been several months since his death, I still feel that he’s living with me. His clothes are still in his drawer, his toothbrush is still in…

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