Relationships

I’m a 30-year-old woman in a relationship since 2008. I love him very much but lately I feel like we’re losing each other. We haven’t had sex in months! I don’t want us to wait too long to do something about this just to be nice and avoid hurting each other. How do I bring back the excitement into our relationship and light the fire again because it used to be amazing? Please help me because I don’t want to lose my best friend. – Spark is Fading

Dear Spark, Many couples feel that after years together their relationship is not as passionate. You are not alone. Some couples may not feel as…

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I’m dating a guy I met online for two months. We’re not official yet, but monogamy is a must for him. We talk/text every day. We’ve introduced each other to our friends. He says has feelings for me and is not looking to meet anyone else and I stopped seeing others and deleted my online profile. But my friend saw him being active on the dating website and we learned he has two profiles! He’s since deleted the profile we met through but apparently still logs on daily with the other one. He doesn’t know I know. Am I expecting too much? – Dismayed by Active Dating Profile
Relationships

I’m dating a guy I met online for two months. We’re not official yet, but monogamy is a must for him. We talk/text every day. We’ve introduced each other to our friends. He says has feelings for me and is not looking to meet anyone else and I stopped seeing others and deleted my online profile. But my friend saw him being active on the dating website and we learned he has two profiles! He’s since deleted the profile we met through but apparently still logs on daily with the other one. He doesn’t know I know. Am I expecting too much? – Dismayed by Active Dating Profile

Dear Dismayed, It’s wonderful to meet someone whom you’re so into that you have stopped looking for anyone else, who you have introduced to your…

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I am a married East Indian man, and my wife and I share a house with my parents. My father has always had an abusive personality. He used to physically beat me during my childhood. For the past one year, he and I have been having problems. I am resenting his abusive nature so much that I don’t want to speak with him anymore. We’ve been avoiding each other for months, but last week he approached me out of the blue and proposed, “The New Year is almost here. Let’s forget all our differences and start a new relationship.” Can this be possible? – Troubled Son
Relationships

I am a married East Indian man, and my wife and I share a house with my parents. My father has always had an abusive personality. He used to physically beat me during my childhood. For the past one year, he and I have been having problems. I am resenting his abusive nature so much that I don’t want to speak with him anymore. We’ve been avoiding each other for months, but last week he approached me out of the blue and proposed, “The New Year is almost here. Let’s forget all our differences and start a new relationship.” Can this be possible? – Troubled Son

Dear Troubled, It appears that both you and your father have different personalities and worldviews. He seems traditional, and, as such, demands complete and utter…

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